Jayden Jeffkyns

2006 - 2006
LocationLeeds W Yorkshire
Age2 months
Cause of DeathCot Death/Sudden Infant Death Syndrome
Date of Birth18/09/2006
Date of Death01/12/2006
Visitors27,273 since 17/01/2008
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UPDATE PLEASE READ---
Sorry ive not been lighting candles and if i have missed your angels birthday or Angel day its just
my laptop had to go in for repair and i wasnt able to get onto site via my computer.Thank you to
everyone who has lit candles and left messages/poems etc it means a lot to me thank you.

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IF YOU HAVE A SPARE MOMENT PLEASE MAY YOU LIGHT A CANDLE FOR MY FRIENDS BROTHER ALLAN ROBINSON WHOS
PAGE IS LISTED IN MY GARDEN IT WUD MEAN A LOT TO HIS SISTER THANK YOU
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Jayden was born 18th september 2006 weighing 7 pounds.
Sids (sudden infant death ) took jayden from us on the 1st December 2006.. just 10weeks old later =(

Jayden has two big sisters and now a bay sister who is double of our gawjus baby boy.
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At sixs weeks of age he want for his six week check-up when the docter
thought she had found a heart mermer and he had not been gaining weight very Wel. Then two week
later we got a letter 4 him to go see a pedatitricion we took him the week after when she told us
they was no heart mumer. She gave Jayden a check up and thought with Jaydens symptons he may have
c.f and also wanted a stomach scan doing. We took jayden that day for a chest xray and blood
test.Jayden had always made a funny noise when he breated and some days struggled a little and not
gained much weight even though he would take full 8oz bottles. We then what home and a week later
got a letter for him to go have a sweat test which is to see if he had c.f this was for the 12th of
December then on the first of december he had been happy all day seemed to be better then ever
before. On the 1st December late evening Jayden was settling down he and was smiling away at me i
then what to lock door a two min job when i returned upstairs i moved jayden and noticed he was not
breathing started cpr while i was in a painc i ran for the phone and called an ambulance it seemed
to take ages even though it wasnt i was giving Jayden mouth to mouth and notting was happening not
a sign that it was working so then i ran to the lady nxt door for help as i counld not find keys i
opened window and jumped though. She came running and also tried mouth to mouth while i phoned my
parents they came and my mam ran to end of road were a paremedic lived he came stright round and
took over the cpr with all his equtiment he had in his reponse car. The paremadics then turned up
with a doctor they worked for a few mins on him in the house. I didnt know what to do i was still
screaming at them to get him to breath the next thing i know is we were in bk of ambulance on way to
lgi hospital were they rushed him into resus. A nurse then took us to a family room and stayed with
us and tryed to calm us down. After about a hr the doctor came in and knelt on the floor i could
tell by the way she looked at me with a tear in her eye that it was not good news she told me that
Jayden was not responding and they was notting more they cud do. I could not get my head round what
i was been told i rang my dad to tell him as they were still at house looking after my older
children my dad then got to hospital. We then had a vicor come in and ask if we wanted Jayden to be
blessed we agreed. Then because Jayden had died so suddenly and unexpected the police came out to
hospital were we were asked to go though what had happend we had to stay at hospital till cid had
removed what they need from are home. We got to leave hospital at 6am six hrs later. We went to stay
at relatives as i cudnt face going back to house. The coroner rang the next day to say a post mortum
would have to been done Jayden had is post mortum do on the tues at sheffiled childrens we had to
wait six days for the results they then rang bk the week after but they cud not find a reason for
his sudden death so they said it left the cause of death as Cot death / Sudden infant Death and that
they had taken blood and tissue to be tested but we wud have to wait a bit longer for them results
weeks past when we got a call saying they was notting showing on the blood test the small windpipe
tissue showed a small apnormalite but that wud not of caused his sudden death. We then had to wait
ten mth for the inquest when the coroner told us the only cause he cud give us was cot death /
sudden infant death as he showed all the hall marks of a coth death baby but that leaves me and all
his family with no answer as they do not know what causes cot death/sudden infant death. This is why
iam trying to raise as much money as i can for the F.S.I.D in hope that one day they can tell me why
he died. Also to Thank the F.S.I.D Conni care programe which has helped me so much when his little
sister were born they gave her an aponea alarm and they give us so much support by weighing her and
keeping a close eye on her.

Jayden has loads of family who miss him soo much.. and we love him to bits..

Rest In Peace Jayden
Missing you Baby Boy
Love All Your Family xxxxx



Thank you for everyones support it means a lot to us.


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♥ Are there birthdays up in heaven
does an angel blow his horn
announcing to all the angels
this is the day you were born ♥

♥ Can the stars be your balloons
and angel food your cake
presents wrapped in moonbeams
all the angels helped to make ♥

♥ So I’ll whisper a little prayer today
asking everyone up above
to sing you a happy birthday song
and give you all our love ♥

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I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.

You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.

God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).

Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.

There is a birthday carousel,
Jeweled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.

I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.

But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.

Rachel Bass. Josh (Friend) September 18, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOOOO YOU,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOOOO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO JAYDEN
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOOOO YOU


HAVE A GREAT 3RD BIRTHDAY, SUCH A BIG BOY NOW

MY THOUGHTS WILL BE WITH YOU SWEETHEART
WISH WE WAS COMEING TO YOUR PARTY
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PLEASE BE WITH MUMMY TODAY, SHE IS SO STRONG BUT NEEDS YOUR HELP XXX

Louise Waddington (Family Friend) September 18, 2009

Happy 3rd Birthday Lil Man

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Sending Lots Of Love {{Hugs}} & Floaty Kisses
on your special day Have a fab party with all your
play mates Stay close to your family
Love Lorraine & Sam ~xx*X*xx~

Lorraine Sams Mummy (GTS Friend) September 18, 2009

Happy Birthday

Just popping on to say Happy birthday will be up later to visit you and bring your birthday pressies.Cant believe your 3 today a big boy now hope you have a lovely day with all your angel friends missing you loads xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Donna Jaydens Jeffkyns Mummy (Mummy) September 18, 2009

special hugs coming your way today happy birthday angel goodnight godbless sleep tight
jacky (baby angel phillip joyce) mummy

Jacky Phillip.s Mummy (GTS Friend) September 18, 2009

GOD BLESS YOU XXXX

Most people walk in and out of your life.

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But only Loved ones leave footprints
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LOVE JEN XXXX

Jennie Sim September 18, 2009

Happy birthday XxXx

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---HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR JAYDEN
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HAVE A LOVELY DAY WITH ALL YOUR WEE FRIENDS WEE MAN, HAPPY 3RD BIRTHDAY LOVE ALWAYS XXXXXXX

April Wee Tommylees Mummy September 17, 2009

Love you loads

Mummys missing you babes its not easy at the moment as your birthday draws closer starts to feel like ive lost you all over again and the tears wont stop.Going to see about your flowers tomorrow and get you your ballons.Please stay close to mummy as i know fridays going to be so though.Think of you all the time not a min passes were i dont think of you.Just wish you were here and i could see you open your pressies and have a party for you but weve both been robbed of it for no reason to why you left so suddenly.

Saw the little lad who was born a few days before you coming out of the nursery had to hold back the tears just wish i could do it with you.Then to make matters worse i had one off them mothers behind me and all she was doing was moaning about her kids felt like i was going to turn round and scream at her and tell her to be bloody gratefull for what she has.

I hear youve been on your visits to Gemma and paul and co. You been to see your new earth buddy aint he adorable you watch over him like you do all your other earth buddies.


Mummy loves you so much just wish things were all so diffrent and you were here with us.Id do ot to have you back here at home were you belong.Everyone missies you loads.Going to come visit you tomorrow morning as the house is so quite when amelia sleeps its horrible the silence.Sending you big hugs and loads of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Donna Jaydens Jeffkyns Mummy (Mummy) September 16, 2009

xxx Sorry 4 The Lack of Candles xxx

Very sorry I havn't been on to light Candles 4 your Angel the last day or 2, finding things very difficult and my 3 kids have me mad busy. My internet is playing up also. Hope to be back on track very soon, thank you 4all your support. All My Love Donna.

•♥• A CANDLE OF LOVE FOR YOU •♥•

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Donna Molloy Angel Kyras Mam September 15, 2009

They say there are no tears in Heaven,
But that must be wrong today.
Because you took part of my broken heart,
When you went away.
I know my tears must have followed you,
How else can it be?
My Spirit feels so broken,
Beause you’re no longer here with me.
They say someday I will accept your passing,
But, right now that can’t be true,
Because part of me is in Heaven,
My tears..... followed you....

Cathy Holden (Family Friend) September 15, 2009
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