Jayden Jeffkyns

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UPDATE PLEASE READ---
Sorry ive not been lighting candles and if i have missed your angels birthday or Angel day its just
my laptop had to go in for repair and i wasnt able to get onto site via my computer.Thank you to
everyone who has lit candles and left messages/poems etc it means a lot to me thank you.

24nov
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IF YOU HAVE A SPARE MOMENT PLEASE MAY YOU LIGHT A CANDLE FOR MY FRIENDS BROTHER ALLAN ROBINSON WHOS
PAGE IS LISTED IN MY GARDEN IT WUD MEAN A LOT TO HIS SISTER THANK YOU
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Jayden was born 18th september 2006 weighing 7 pounds.
Sids (sudden infant death ) took jayden from us on the 1st December 2006.. just 10weeks old later =(

Jayden has two big sisters and now a bay sister who is double of our gawjus baby boy.
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At sixs weeks of age he want for his six week check-up when the docter
thought she had found a heart mermer and he had not been gaining weight very Wel. Then two week
later we got a letter 4 him to go see a pedatitricion we took him the week after when she told us
they was no heart mumer. She gave Jayden a check up and thought with Jaydens symptons he may have
c.f and also wanted a stomach scan doing. We took jayden that day for a chest xray and blood
test.Jayden had always made a funny noise when he breated and some days struggled a little and not
gained much weight even though he would take full 8oz bottles. We then what home and a week later
got a letter for him to go have a sweat test which is to see if he had c.f this was for the 12th of
December then on the first of december he had been happy all day seemed to be better then ever
before. On the 1st December late evening Jayden was settling down he and was smiling away at me i
then what to lock door a two min job when i returned upstairs i moved jayden and noticed he was not
breathing started cpr while i was in a painc i ran for the phone and called an ambulance it seemed
to take ages even though it wasnt i was giving Jayden mouth to mouth and notting was happening not
a sign that it was working so then i ran to the lady nxt door for help as i counld not find keys i
opened window and jumped though. She came running and also tried mouth to mouth while i phoned my
parents they came and my mam ran to end of road were a paremedic lived he came stright round and
took over the cpr with all his equtiment he had in his reponse car. The paremadics then turned up
with a doctor they worked for a few mins on him in the house. I didnt know what to do i was still
screaming at them to get him to breath the next thing i know is we were in bk of ambulance on way to
lgi hospital were they rushed him into resus. A nurse then took us to a family room and stayed with
us and tryed to calm us down. After about a hr the doctor came in and knelt on the floor i could
tell by the way she looked at me with a tear in her eye that it was not good news she told me that
Jayden was not responding and they was notting more they cud do. I could not get my head round what
i was been told i rang my dad to tell him as they were still at house looking after my older
children my dad then got to hospital. We then had a vicor come in and ask if we wanted Jayden to be
blessed we agreed. Then because Jayden had died so suddenly and unexpected the police came out to
hospital were we were asked to go though what had happend we had to stay at hospital till cid had
removed what they need from are home. We got to leave hospital at 6am six hrs later. We went to stay
at relatives as i cudnt face going back to house. The coroner rang the next day to say a post mortum
would have to been done Jayden had is post mortum do on the tues at sheffiled childrens we had to
wait six days for the results they then rang bk the week after but they cud not find a reason for
his sudden death so they said it left the cause of death as Cot death / Sudden infant Death and that
they had taken blood and tissue to be tested but we wud have to wait a bit longer for them results
weeks past when we got a call saying they was notting showing on the blood test the small windpipe
tissue showed a small apnormalite but that wud not of caused his sudden death. We then had to wait
ten mth for the inquest when the coroner told us the only cause he cud give us was cot death /
sudden infant death as he showed all the hall marks of a coth death baby but that leaves me and all
his family with no answer as they do not know what causes cot death/sudden infant death. This is why
iam trying to raise as much money as i can for the F.S.I.D in hope that one day they can tell me why
he died. Also to Thank the F.S.I.D Conni care programe which has helped me so much when his little
sister were born they gave her an aponea alarm and they give us so much support by weighing her and
keeping a close eye on her.

Jayden has loads of family who miss him soo much.. and we love him to bits..

Rest In Peace Jayden
Missing you Baby Boy
Love All Your Family xxxxx



Thank you for everyones support it means a lot to us.